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A Timeless Setting for Luxury Weddings & Special Events.

Imagine all your favorite people in the most magnificent setting of 60 private acres of majestic forest, lavender fields, and highlighted with century old historic barns meticulously restored with the most exquisite modern features. Lavender Oaks Farm is located less than 5 miles to downtown Chapel Hill, NC, very close to all the hotels, restaurants, only 30 minutes to RDU Airport, and yes, Uber/Lyft and shuttles (large and small) come to our farm. 

More about our Venue

  • 7,000 sq ft Historic barn with century old wood beams, crystal chandeliers
  • 1,400 sq ft Pavilion Barn for ceremony or cocktail hour
  • 3,500 sq ft Outdoor Patio with stone fireplace and wrought iron gazebo
  • Elegant Dressing Suite
  • Modern Log Cabin
  • Graphic Design Services
  • Beautiful Year-Around

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110 reviews
  • Alice Polonsky
    Alice Polonsky
    3 weeks ago

    My partner and I just had our wedding at Lavender Oaks Farm last week, and truthfully I do not have enough words to describe how amazing, incredible, and beautiful this place is and will stay in our hearts forever. When we were touring wedding venues, we fell in love with not only the space but also how much was included in booking with Lavender Oaks. As someone who is very indecisive, does not have enough time to plan a wedding due to working in healthcare, and is personally not that creative... Lavender Oaks created all all of our graphics (i.e. wedding signage, save the dates/invitations, etc. ), made our centerpieces, made the bouquets for all my bridal party, set up a flawless timeline, connected us with incredible vendors, and went above and beyond with helping to create personal touches for all our guests. We booked the venue about a year in advance, and we had multiple meetings/calls with Karen leading up to the wedding. Now to the wedding day, I personally never felt rushed and everyone just gave me incredible compliments on how smoothly everything was from start to finish. I have many family members from the northeast area, who always like to find something to critique and they had no critiques from our wedding. On the contrary, everyone said it was one of the best weddings they've been too and I could not have been more happy. On top of that, this day was very emotional for my partner and I as we both had mothers who have passed and Karen made sure that we were able to honor them in the best way possible throughout the day. It was truly the most magical day of our lives, and one that my now husband will never forget. Thank you Karen and her team for truly making this day so wonderful for Michael and I. I couldn't be more thankful for choosing Lavender Oaks Farm to be a part of our special day.

  • Abate Photo + Film

    A seriously stunning wedding venue with the best owner and event team! Karen and her staff make sure your wedding/event goes on without a hitch, and they offer so many great services + guidance throughout your wedding planning experience. The barn is spacious with so many beautiful spots for photos inside and out. The patio has a beautiful fireplace which is great for cocktail hour, late night hangs during the reception, or as your ceremony backdrop (my favorite!). This is one of my absolute favorite wedding venues to photograph at! It’s a joy any time I’m able to be at Lavender Oaks Farm!

  • Sarah Beth Christie

    The most spectacular wedding venue I have ever experienced. Karen the owner amd wedding coordinator, thought of EVERYTHING! No details were not thought of or considered. My daughter said her wedding day was "the most stress-free day of her life"! How many brides and families can say THAT!?? A glorious wedding day our family will never forget! Highly recommend Lavender Oaks if you want a PERFECT event!

  • John Blackwell
    John Blackwell
    11 months ago

    We made the best wedding decision by choosing Lavender Oaks Farm as our venue. Our wedding was in October of this year and we’re still on cloud nine! We had planned and booked a wedding abroad but due to events outside our control we had to completely pivot. That’s when we found Karen and Lavender Oaks. She took my wife under her wing and made her feel like everything was going to be ok. She even came up to NYC during the planning process and took us out to lunch. Wedding planning can be overwhelming but Karen is a consummate professional. When you book at her venue, Karen will be your wedding planner and connect with you with the best team of vendors in the Triangle. The venue itself is a styled after a European chateau with lofty ceilings, natural light, and sprawling grounds to walk on. You can choose from a few different ceremony locations including a pavilion barn, fireplace patio, or gazebo. We chose the pavilion barn and it was perfect for our wedding size of 115. Another selling point for Lavender Oaks is that the start and end times on wedding day are flexible. She opens the venue for the bridal party early in the morning and will accommodate your desired end time. We chose to keep our party going till midnight! Karen, thank you for everything! We can’t wait to visit next time we’re in North Carolina! (Bonus pic of Karen comforting my very stressed out fiancée during wedding week)

  • Jaymie Eichorn
    Jaymie Eichorn
    2 months ago

    Beautiful, magical, and a lovely host! My friend and I stopped here for a visit to the boutique, and we had an amazing visit. We were greeted by the owner (aka Mrs. Lavender) and she was so accommodating and friendly. She took the time to explain the products to us and also to tell us about the history of Lavender Oaks and upcoming workshops that we are hoping to attend! The facilities and grounds are so beautiful, and we took our time walking around and admiring the dozens of monarch butterflies and the impressive watermelon patch. We will absolutely be back to this little wonderland near Chapel Hill.

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